frustration.............

Frustration kills many people... It's an enemy unseen, enheard but exists in each and everyone of us. It's the product of too much expectation, mistrust and failures. How to cure it? it depends on us, we built it within us and therefore we are the only ones who could destroy it. It may look that easy but it is not, if unmanaged it may lead to more serious and more complicated one. It is normal to feel such but it becomes not normal if you let it control you. It's within you so take control of it.
There are so many ways that can be suggested as a cure or therapy but the thing is, not unless you are prepared to take these you'll never make it to the stage of moving on. The first thing is acceptance....accept everything has a reason and time can't be brought back...what is done is done...the next thing is the thing you need to think of...letting go is the next step.
There are times where you need to fight yourself to redeem yourself... confusing? yes it is but it is the way it is done...

reality bites!! ouch!

I once again caught myself in a middle of knowing what to do next and when to do it. Well, I always wondered why we ever need to be in this situation where we need to pick between black or white, high or low..But there are times when I fully understand why we need to and that is to teach us something that will leave a great lesson that we will lived with. Like my psychology teacher always put as an example, if you once slipped on a peel of banana you'll keep that in mind so whenever you come across with a peel of banana on the floor you'll make sure that you'll not step on it. It's the same with us, not unless we experience something we'll never learn from it. If you're careless with your words, and a tactless type of person well you'll never learn to choose your words not unless you'll encounter a person who'll make you realize you need to or just a simple but hard slap on your face. It's the same when you fall in love, when you're there you feel there is no world outside and everything is just the two of you. No one can tear you apart as how others say it. But when your fantasy moment failed to make it to paradise you'll then start to realize the lost time and lost opportunities that you let go because you thought nothing is more important that what you have. That the only thing you need to live is just each other.
Well, failure sometimes plays a good part in our lives. Although its really hard to recover that easy from the effect of failing but sooner or later you'll learn to. That's life in deed, a journey that we are all taking and the finale depends on the roads you take and decisions you'ved made.

motorshow!!!!!!!!!!

Have you ever been in a motor show? I bet if you are not a motor interested type of person try attending a motor show and see how magnificient a person could be in making their imagination to life, you'll be thinking twice...I have a motor 110cc only.. not the expensive ones that drops your jaws down and i could say i only have it because i need it.. but in a sense where i am taking time looking at it and fixing things or even finding new things for it..well, nah...but last week i accidentally attended a motor show and even if its not that huge motor show like what you can see in racing movies or sort of those movies still, i went from being just a motor user to a motor critic. I then begun to appreciated the efforts and hardwork that is thrown to these bikes that was so amazing...(maybe one thing is that I just saw some..)Well, I thought it will not take time to stay there but believe it or not I spent time staring again and again to those bikes and asking myself why do the owners did this? what's their purpose? Is this a hobby or what? well, the thing is i appreciated it alot...up to the point where i begun surfing for motorshow all over the world and searching for hottest models of bikes...crazy but true... but one thing is for sure..if you want to pursue in this kind of thing you have to full your pocket because this is not just tens or hundreds of money we're talking about in here..if you want to caught the attention of the crowd be prepared for the cost...anyway, you'll find alot of self-fulfillment and it'll boost your confidence and self-esteem i bet...