reality bites!! ouch!

I once again caught myself in a middle of knowing what to do next and when to do it. Well, I always wondered why we ever need to be in this situation where we need to pick between black or white, high or low..But there are times when I fully understand why we need to and that is to teach us something that will leave a great lesson that we will lived with. Like my psychology teacher always put as an example, if you once slipped on a peel of banana you'll keep that in mind so whenever you come across with a peel of banana on the floor you'll make sure that you'll not step on it. It's the same with us, not unless we experience something we'll never learn from it. If you're careless with your words, and a tactless type of person well you'll never learn to choose your words not unless you'll encounter a person who'll make you realize you need to or just a simple but hard slap on your face. It's the same when you fall in love, when you're there you feel there is no world outside and everything is just the two of you. No one can tear you apart as how others say it. But when your fantasy moment failed to make it to paradise you'll then start to realize the lost time and lost opportunities that you let go because you thought nothing is more important that what you have. That the only thing you need to live is just each other.
Well, failure sometimes plays a good part in our lives. Although its really hard to recover that easy from the effect of failing but sooner or later you'll learn to. That's life in deed, a journey that we are all taking and the finale depends on the roads you take and decisions you'ved made.